Bagi para cowok, harap tau diri buat ngehargain ce.. Ga perlu tunggu disuruh ato ditegur, sadar diri aja de.. Bayangin kalo nyokap u, ato sodara u, ato anak u, ato istri/pacar u ga dihargain, pasti ga suka kan?
“Segala sesuatu yang kamu kehendaki supaya orang perbuat kepadamu, perbuatlah demikian juga kepada mereka..”
Contoh simple nya aja yg gw liat, di angkutan umum..
Pas lagi naik angkutan umum(bus biasa, busway), beberapa kali gw pernah denger, ntah itu ibu2 ato mba2 (cuma kedengeran suara nya), marah2 or negur co yg nyuri2 kesempatan di tengah padet nya kendaraan.. And recently, gw ngeliat gelagat yg mencurigakan dr seorang co pas di 213.
Co itu tinggi n keliatan terpelajar.. but, as many said, we can’t judge a book by it’s cover..
Ga lama ada ce yg naik, dia berdiri di samping gw n tu co berdiri di blkg ce itu.. Awal2 gw masi maklum, krn bus emang rada penuh, jadi harus sampe bikin 3 baris, walopun cukup terganggu sama co itu yg kayaknya berdiri nya mepet ke tu ce..
Tapi, pas uda lwt Slipi (kali ini gw lagi naik bus sampe CL) bus kan uda kosongan tuh, tapi tuh co masi aja getol berdiri di blkg ce itu.. Gw sampe mikir, apa dia kenalan ce nya (temen or pacar).. soalnya sbnr nya tu co bisa geser aja ke samping ce itu, tp dia tetep bertahan berdiri di blkg nya -.-
Untung aja ce itu inisiatif. Ga lama, dia jalan ke bagian depan bus yg emang uda lenggang n skeliling nya ce2 smua. Bagus lah.. Tp dlm hati was2 jg, sambil kasi sugesti dr hati ke co itu, “jgn ke sini, jgn ke sini, jgn ke belakang gw atopun dkt2 gw..!!” sambil pasang tampang n tatapan jutek. Untung nya emang dia ga ke deket2 gw..
Hmm.. i don’t know if i should tell this.. Tapi gw jg pernah di pepet2in gitu.. Argh, just remembering it, makes me mad n wanna cry..!! It’s really hard even all i have to do is just typing it.. Once i remembered it, the scene and the feel about how mad, afraid, scared, sad, desperate i am at the time, popped up again.. Back then, i really wished someone would helped me, a hero from nowhere, but there isn’t. I guess i can’t just count on someone. Have to protect myself, by myself.
When remembering it, i still have some complaints to GOD.
“Why did He let that thing happen??”
“Isn’t He said He will be protecting me??
“Isn’t He know that i’m scared??
“Didn’t He hear my heart screaming for His help??”
What i learned is that u don’t have to be afraid to speak up. When u feels that something is not right, instead of being scared, SPEAK. You, yourself that can protect and help yourself, don’t just wait for others to come and help you.
It took me sometime to gathered all my courage and asked him to move a bit. And thank God, he moved far away from me..
When i get home, i am so mad and sad, till the point that i can’t stand it any longer, so i told what happened to my mom and dad. My dad said, if later, someone try to be near me again, just stepped on his foot!!
i cried and cried again that night, asking God why He let that happen, showing Him how sad i am..
The next morning, i still have to go to the office.. Still really sad, finally i cried again at the office as i told what happened to my friends.. One, is my college friend – told her via YM, and the other is my office friend.. They try to comfort me and i’m very thankful for that.. i feel a little relieved after shared it with them..
